Man Takes Lives of Wife and Two Sons Before Ending His Own on Their Eldest’s Graduation Day

The Dawson County Sheriff’s Office made a devastating discovery on May 10th when they found four bodies inside a home overlooking Nebraska’s serene lakefront.
Investigators determined that 42-year-old Jeremy Koch had fatally attacked his wife Bailey and their sons Hudson, 18, and Asher, 16, before taking his own life in what authorities are calling a murder-suicide.
The timing couldn’t have been more heartbreaking – Hudson’s high school graduation ceremony was scheduled to begin just hours after the family’s bodies were discovered.
In the days leading up to this unthinkable tragedy, Bailey had desperately reached out on social media, making urgent pleas for assistance with her husband’s deteriorating mental state.
Jeremy had reportedly struggled with severe depression for over a decade, beginning in 2009, and had made multiple suicide attempts throughout those years. Bailey even launched a crowdfunding campaign to help finance her husband’s treatment needs.
“May is Mental Health Awareness Month, so here we are… making you aware,” Bailey had written in her heartfelt appeal. She described how Jeremy’s condition had reached a critical point, explaining that he could barely function day-to-day: “Jeremy cannot get out of bed unless forced. By not eating or drinking, Jeremy is slowly completing suicide.”
The situation reached a terrifying crescendo in March when Bailey woke to find her husband standing beside their bed, holding a knife and saying, “Something is wrong.” Through careful persuasion, she convinced him to undergo electroconvulsive therapy, though the treatment proved unsuccessful.
“It didn’t work. Jeremy became a shell of himself,” Bailey documented at the time.
“I have no pride left. Mental illness is taking my husband from me, and I’m begging you to open your eyes and see the reality that is this society’s mental health crisis.”
Just two days before the tragedy unfolded, Bailey posted that Jeremy had been discharged from psychiatric hospitalization specifically so he could attend Hudson’s graduation milestone.
“Our boys are doing well living their lives, and for that, we are thankful,” Bailey had written. “Please just pray Jeremy is able to somehow be with us on Saturday for our oldest son’s high school graduation.”
According to the investigation, Bailey and both teenagers died from stab wounds.
Bailey worked as a special education instructor at Holdrege Public Schools, which released a statement following the incident: “Our hearts are with everyone impacted by a tragic event that has deeply affected us all.”
Lane Kugler, Bailey’s father who made the horrific discovery of his daughter’s and grandsons’ bodies, shared his anguish in a public message posted online.
“Jeremy had been fighting mental illness for many, many years,” Kugler wrote. “His depression had turned into psychosis. It was not Jeremy who committed this horrific act. It was a sick mind.”
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